The transcript discusses the challenges of writing and the common limiting beliefs that aspiring authors face. It features insights from Chandler Bolt’s book, emphasizing the importance of overcoming these mental barriers to succeed in writing. Here are the key points:
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Limiting Beliefs: The speaker introduces the concept of limiting beliefs, such as feeling like you lack an original idea or not having enough time to write. They suggest that these thoughts can halt the creative process.
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Mindset Shift: A significant suggestion is to reframe negative thoughts. For example, instead of saying “I have imposter syndrome,” they recommend using “I have the tendency to feel like an imposter,” which sounds less permanent and intimidating.
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Writing Strategies: The speaker encourages writers to utilize small pockets of time throughout the day for writing. They advise keeping a notebook or using a notes app to capture ideas whenever possible, rather than waiting for large blocks of uninterrupted time.
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Self-Perception: The narrator emphasizes the importance of changing one’s self-talk and recognizing legitimate accomplishments. Instead of downplaying achievements (like saying “I’m just self-published”), it’s encouraged to assert one’s identity as a published author.
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Uniqueness of Experience: The idea that no one can tell your story exactly as you do is highlighted. Your unique experiences and perspectives make your writing valuable, even in crowded genres.
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Support and Resources: The speaker invites viewers to engage by sharing their experiences and promises guidance through the process of writing and publishing. They also reference Chandler’s book as a helpful tool for navigating this journey.
The overall message is one of empowerment, urging writers to confront their doubts and embrace their creativity.
Today, I want to talk about that time I almost quit writing. Spoiler: It was… yesterday. And the day before that. And—if we’re being completely honest—probably earlier today, too.
Because let’s face it: this writing thing is tough. More often than not, I’ve got a little voice in my head telling me that it’s too hard, that I’m not strong enough, and that I’m not good enough. These thoughts? They’re what are called limiting beliefs, and they’re masterful at holding us back.
Hi, I’m Allison Spooner, author of two collections of flash fiction on Amazon and soon-to-be author of my first full-length novel, The Lost Girl: A Neverland Story (coming by the end of the year if all goes to plan!). Right now, I’m on my very own publishing journey, and as I work toward my goals, I’m documenting my process while following the strategies outlined in Chandler Bolt’s Published: The Proven Path from Blank Page to 10,000 Copies Sold. Because let’s be real—selling 10,000 copies sounds pretty great.
If you’ve struggled with limiting beliefs on your writing journey (or are struggling right now), you’re not alone. But here’s the thing—those beliefs? They. Are. Lies. Today, we’re going to unpack some of the most common limiting beliefs writers face, how to counteract them, and strategies for moving forward with confidence.
What Are Limiting Beliefs?
Limiting beliefs are sneaky little thoughts that tell us we can’t. They convince us we’re not good enough, smart enough, or capable enough to achieve what we dream of. These thoughts don’t just pop up for new writers—they affect all of us, no matter where we are in our journey. Deciding you want to be a writer—or even that you are a writer—is a huge first step, but it doesn’t magically erase the doubt or fear that can hold you back.
To move forward, you need to develop an author mindset, one that recognizes and challenges those pesky limiting beliefs for what they are: blockers to your creativity. Let’s break down some common limiting beliefs and how to overcome them.
1. “I Don’t Have an Idea”
This is a classic limiting belief:
- “I want to write, but I don’t know what to write about.”
- Or worse, “I had an idea, but it’s already been done!”
Sound familiar? Here’s the truth: all ideas have been “done” to some degree. What makes your story unique is your perspective, voice, and personal experiences.
How to Overcome It:
- Embrace Your Perspective:
I’m working on a Peter Pan retelling (The Lost Girl: A Neverland Story), and yes, I’ve seen how many Neverland stories are already out there. But none of them tell this story—the one with my take, my characters, and my voice. - Give Yourself Permission to Brainstorm:
Maybe you don’t have an idea right now. And that’s okay! Chandler Bolt’s book offers great strategies for finding ideas, and I’ve got videos on how to use prompts and brainstorming techniques to get those creative juices flowing. - Trust That You Have Something to Say:
You have unique experiences, struggles, and memories that no one else has. Somewhere in all of that is a story only you can tell.
2. “I Don’t Have an Agent or Book Deal”
Another common limiting belief is the idea that you need an agent, publishing deal, or traditional path to become a “real” author.
The Reality?
You don’t. There are more options for writers today than ever before. Self-publishing, hybrid publishing, and indie presses give you multiple paths to share your work with the world. You don’t need a traditional book deal—but you do need discipline, a finished manuscript, and some know-how.
How to Overcome It:
Chandler’s book breaks down the exact steps you can take to self-publish a successful book, from writing to marketing. Don’t get stuck waiting for someone else to validate you—choose the path that works for you and keep moving forward.
3. “Who Am I to Write This Book?”
Ah, imposter syndrome—the writer’s kryptonite. That nagging question of, “Am I good enough to tell this story?” comes for everyone at some point.
My Quick Tip: Rename It.
Instead of calling it “imposter syndrome,” try calling it “imposter tendencies.” Hear me out:
- “Tendencies” sound temporary and manageable, whereas “syndrome” sounds official and permanent.
- Saying, “Sometimes I have imposter tendencies, but I’m not an imposter,” gives you more power and control over your thoughts.
Small word choices make a big difference. (I’ve got a full video on this topic if you want to explore it further!)
4. “I Don’t Have Time to Write a Book.”
This might be the most common limiting belief of all, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing writing requires hours of uninterrupted time. Spoiler: it doesn’t.
How to Overcome It:
Books can be written in 10- or 20-minute bursts. Standing in line? Waiting to pick up the kids? Skip scrolling social media and type out a few lines in your notes app instead.
Keep a notebook handy, jot down ideas during unexpected free time, and chip away bit by bit. Those small moments add up—and suddenly, you’ve got a draft!
5. “I’m Just Self-Published.”
Even after publishing, limiting beliefs don’t stop. One I often catch myself saying is, “I’m just self-published.”
How to Reframe It:
Instead of diminishing my accomplishments, I’ve started saying:
- “I am a published author with two books available on Amazon!”
The truth is, most people don’t care how your book is published—they care about the story and where they can buy it. Own your journey. Self-publishing is an incredible accomplishment, so celebrate it!
Turning Your Limiting Beliefs Around
Here’s a simple exercise Chandler Bolt recommends:
Take a limiting belief and rephrase it into something empowering. Examples:
- “I don’t have time to write a book” becomes “I can make time to write a book.”
- “I don’t have an idea” becomes “I have tons of experiences that could inspire a great book idea—I just need to find one.”
Practice flipping your self-doubt into self-confidence, and watch how your mindset starts to shift.
Let’s Talk About It
If any of these limiting beliefs sound familiar—or you’ve got others of your own—drop them in the comments, and let’s talk about how to turn them around.
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Now, go fight for your creativity—you’ve got this!
Reference
- Original Source: https://youtu.be/1HzKVdVvPuQ